Why You Should Have A Boyfriend During College

Why You Should Have A Boyfriend During College- sincerelykenz

 

I feel like the first thing that always comes up when you Google the words “relationship“ and “college” in the same sentence is all the reasons why you should be single throughout college. I personally, have never had the experience of being single in college, but I can tell you that being in a relationship during college is absolutely awesome.

 

Here are the top reasons why being in a relationship in college is awesome:

Why You Should Have A Boyfriend During College- sincerelykenz

“Alone Time”

-One thing that I have a lot of trouble with in college is finding alone time. Don’t get me wrong, I love my friends and am so happy to either be living with them or have them down the hall, but sometimes you just need some time for yourself. Having a boyfriend allows you to always have a friend away from your other friends… if that makes sense? Whenever I need some time to relax or just think about myself I have my boyfriend to hang out with. Even just sitting in silence with someone special to you can help a lot in college.

Why You Should Have A Boyfriend During College- sincerelykenz

Staying In

-Okay, call me crazy but I really really do not enjoy going out on Friday and Saturday nights. I know staying in isn’t for everyone, but neither is going out. Having a boyfriend allows you to always have someone to spend the night in with.

Why You Should Have A Boyfriend During College- sincerelykenz

You’ll Always Have A Supporter/ You’ll Always Know That Someone Is There For You

-Whether you’re stressing about a big exam or just need a confidence booster, your boyfriend will always be there for you. I think that this is something that’s really important to have when you’re in college.

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Homework Buddy

-College is a lot different than high school. The workload in college can get unbearable sometimes. Making sure you get your assignments done is crucial when it comes to doing well and it is extremely important that you stay on top of things. While going to the library with all of your friends may be ideal, you for sure won’t get too much work done. Having one person to make sure that you do your homework and help you keep yourself on track is very helpful during college.

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You’ll Always Have Someone To Get Food With

-Let’s face it; eating alone is so lame and SO sad. Boyfriends are awesome because they are always hungry (why? I don’t know) and always do a great job of eating all of the food that you just can’t finish.

 Why You Should Have A Boyfriend During College- sincerelykenz

He’ll Keep You Going

-College is stressful. Having a boyfriend that is always there to push you through it is really nice. Boyfriends always push you to be your best and let’s be real, what’s better than having someone tell you that you look pretty when you’re having a really bad hair day?

 

 

 

What is your opinion when it comes to being in a relationship during college? I hope you all have a fabulous weekend and enjoy the first few days of fall!

 

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  • Tabitha McGill

    I made an account just so I could comment on this! Although my boyfriend is not here at college with me, I loved reading this. I can relate to so many of your points when he comes and visits, especially about staying in! It’s rare to find actual, healthy relationships in college, because it seems as if the only thing people ever want to do is hook up. I’m constantly questioned by my friends, “How is it even possible to make a long distance relationship work? Don’t you just want to let loose and hook up with randoms?” Anyways, I’m glad somebody can understand where I’m coming from and I’m glad to be in the minority of college students with you Kenz! (:

  • I love this! and I agreed with everything you said — I think people are quick to dismiss college relationships because they haven’t had a good experience, but that isn’t the case for everyone!
    Anna \ http://sheisjoyful.com

  • While I would recommend to anyone being single at SOME point in college (preferable when you start college), I also am all for relationships in college! I met my husband in college! We dated through 2 of the 4 years in college and I wouldn’t have wanted to meet him any later!

  • This is some seriously great stuff!(: I started college single and met my boyfriend my sophomore year(: although we are long distance now, those first few months at college together were a blast (:
    http://www.aslifegrows.com